

10 Lessons from a Six-Year-Old on Disciplined Agile
Drawing parallels between a child’s perspective and Disciplined Agile (DA) principles offers fresh insights into effective ways of working (WoW). Below are ten lessons from a six-year-old, aligned with DA practices as outlined by the Project Management Institute (PMI).
1) Embrace Curiosity
Child’s View: “Why is the sky blue?” Kids constantly ask questions to understand the world.
DA Perspective: Encourage continuous learning and improvement by questioning existing processes and seeking better approaches.
2) Adapt to Change
Child’s View: Children switch from one game to another effortlessly, embracing new rules and scenarios.
DA Perspective: Be flexible and open to evolving your WoW to meet changing project needs.
3) Collaborate Openly
Child’s View: Kids naturally play together, sharing ideas and building on each other’s creativity.
DA Perspective: Foster a collaborative environment where team members freely share knowledge and support one another.
4) Keep It Simple
Child’s View: A cardboard box becomes a spaceship; simplicity fuels imagination.
DA Perspective: Focus on delivering just enough documentation and solutions to meet stakeholder needs without unnecessary complexity.
5) Learn Through Play
Child’s View: Play is a primary learning mechanism, allowing kids to explore and understand their environment.
DA Perspective: Utilize iterative cycles and retrospectives to experiment, learn, and improve continuously.
6) Value Individuals
Child’s View: Each child brings unique ideas to a game, enriching the experience.
DA Perspective: Recognize and leverage the diverse skills and perspectives of team members to enhance project outcomes.
7) Focus on the Present
Child’s View: Children are mindful, fully engaging in the current activity without distraction.
DA Perspective: Concentrate on current tasks to ensure quality and efficiency, avoiding multitasking pitfalls.
8) Accept Mistakes as Learning Opportunities
Child’s View: Mistakes are part of learning; a toppled block tower is rebuilt with enthusiasm.
DA Perspective: Embrace failures as opportunities to learn and improve processes and products.
9) Communicate Clearly
Child’s View: Kids express needs and ideas straightforwardly, ensuring understanding.
DA Perspective: Promote clear and transparent communication within teams to align goals and expectations.
10) Maintain Enthusiasm
Child’s View: Children approach activities with energy and excitement, motivating those around them.
DA Perspective: Cultivate a positive and motivated team environment to drive engagement and productivity.
Lesson
Child’s Perspective
Disciplined Agile Approach
Embrace Curiosity
Constantly ask questions to understand the world.
Encourage continuous learning and improvement by questioning existing processes.
Adapt to Change
Switch between games effortlessly, embracing new scenarios.
Be flexible and open to evolving your WoW to meet changing project needs.
Collaborate Openly
Naturally play together, sharing ideas and creativity.
Foster a collaborative environment where team members share knowledge and support each other.
Keep It Simple
Use simplicity to fuel imagination, like turning a box into a spaceship.
Deliver just enough documentation and solutions to meet stakeholder needs without unnecessary complexity.
Learn Through Play
Use play as a primary mechanism to explore and understand.
Utilize iterative cycles and retrospectives to experiment, learn, and improve continuously.
Value Individuals
Each child brings unique ideas to enrich the experience.
Recognize and leverage diverse skills and perspectives of team.
Focus on the Present
Fully engage in the current activity without distraction.
Concentrate on current tasks to ensure quality and efficiency, avoiding multitasking pitfalls.
Accept Mistakes as Learning Opportunities
View mistakes as part of learning; rebuild with enthusiasm.
Embrace failures as opportunities to learn and improve processes and products.
Communicate Clearly
Express needs and ideas straightforwardly to ensure understanding.
Promote clear and transparent communication within teams to align goals and expectations.
Maintain Enthusiasm
Approach activities with energy and excitement, motivating others.
Cultivate a positive and motivated team environment to drive engagement and productivity.
By observing these childlike behaviors, teams can align with DA principles to create a dynamic and effective WoW, fostering an environment conducive to innovation and continuous improvement.

PML would like to extend a huge thank you to Dr. Casey LeFrance for sharing his knowledge and wisdom with the PML community! Learn more about him below and reach out to connect!
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Dr. Casey LaFrance is a professor, program coordinator, and volunteer coach blending project management, agile, and accessibility with heart. He’s all about gratitude, inclusion, and helping learners thrive—especially those with sensory needs. Proud dad, loyal dog tennis ball tosser, and partner in learning and life.
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